我一直以为，如果我听到别人在后面怎么说我坏话，我一定会很难过，然后想办法去解释，让别人接受我。
但是最近才发现，原来我不会。我只会一笑置之。
朋友说，以前觉得我特别做作、虚伪，总是一大班同学一起说我坏话。
我听了之后竟然没有生气、难过，连我自己都吓一跳。
或许是真的长大了，比以前成熟了。那些不了解你，却总是在背后流言蜚语的人，其实真的不需要放在心上。
没错，我是希望我人缘好，跟每个人都混得好，但是如果因为这样要我总是把心思放在怎么让别人喜欢我，我会觉得比死还难受。
阿谀奉承不是我的个性，我不喜欢这样，也不屑这样。别人脑袋里面装什么大便是别人家的事情，我管不了。
我会不会做作虚伪，了解我的人自然心中有数。
如果你觉得我哪里不好，直接跟我说，我可能会生气，但是生完气我会反省，如果是我的错，我会低头道歉改过；如果是误会，解释完自然再见亦是朋友。
当然你也可以在我后面说我坏话，你甚至可以说到天荒地老海枯石烂，我无所谓。
The Hunger Games
(Since this is an English movie, I'll try to post this in English. Please ignore my broken language and the hell lot of grammar mistakes. It has been a long time since my last time writing in English, hihi...)
I have been damn excited since my sis shared to me about the news that The Hunger Games is being filmed, and since then I have been keeping an eye about the screening of the movie since then. AND... FINALLY I got to watch the movie!!!
I didn't actually plan to watch it so soon, busy with work and all the nonsense stuff, I thought I would have to wait a few weeks to watch it. And yesterday I went dinner with Zhao Xian and Qin Hong, one of us (I've forgotten who was it) suggested to watch a movie. So there we were~
Here's a few pics I've got from the Internet:
Good movie, I would say. Comparing it to the book, I can see that all the important details can be found in the movie, although some details have been different. All the actors have done a really good job, it was like all the characters in the books came alive (the Twilight crew failed in doing so, I don't know why). I love Katniss, Peeta, Gale, Haymitch, Cinna, and even minor characters like Rue and Cato. I love every part of the movie(just as much as I love the books)!!!
This is a MUST for you who have not watch the movie yet, and I am planning to watch it for the second time.
PS: I've spent almost RM200 for The Hunger Games so far. I read the chinese version when I was in form 5, before the exams, and get totally obsessed. After reading the whole series, I went for the English version. The chinese version costs me around RM120, and RM56 for the English ones (yeah, translated version costs a damn lot), then RM8 for the movie (totally worth it). And I do not regret!!!
PSS: My English really SUCKS... Should read more to improve it...
I have been damn excited since my sis shared to me about the news that The Hunger Games is being filmed, and since then I have been keeping an eye about the screening of the movie since then. AND... FINALLY I got to watch the movie!!!
I didn't actually plan to watch it so soon, busy with work and all the nonsense stuff, I thought I would have to wait a few weeks to watch it. And yesterday I went dinner with Zhao Xian and Qin Hong, one of us (I've forgotten who was it) suggested to watch a movie. So there we were~
Here's a few pics I've got from the Internet:
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| The main character: Katniss (I don't know the actress' name, but she acted really well, like Katniss's coming out just from the books) |
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| Peeta, the male main character. Handsome and rich. Fallen in love with Katniss since young. Charming. |
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| The most touching scene - Rue's death. I didn't cry, though. Maybe it was because I have already read the books and the storyline was no surprise to me. |
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| She gave me deep impression, her "capitol style" was a little bit different from what I've imagined when I read the books. Pleasant surprise, she looked much better and special than what I've imagined. |
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| Gale, so heartbreaking that he has to be left behind as Katniss went to the Game with Peeta. Honestly he is more handsome than Peeta, but in this movie he is not the main character (yet, he will be when the third book is filmed) |
Good movie, I would say. Comparing it to the book, I can see that all the important details can be found in the movie, although some details have been different. All the actors have done a really good job, it was like all the characters in the books came alive (the Twilight crew failed in doing so, I don't know why). I love Katniss, Peeta, Gale, Haymitch, Cinna, and even minor characters like Rue and Cato. I love every part of the movie(just as much as I love the books)!!!
This is a MUST for you who have not watch the movie yet, and I am planning to watch it for the second time.
PS: I've spent almost RM200 for The Hunger Games so far. I read the chinese version when I was in form 5, before the exams, and get totally obsessed. After reading the whole series, I went for the English version. The chinese version costs me around RM120, and RM56 for the English ones (yeah, translated version costs a damn lot), then RM8 for the movie (totally worth it). And I do not regret!!!
PSS: My English really SUCKS... Should read more to improve it...
真的不用跪着走完
自己选择的路，跪着也要走完
如果是前几年的我看到这句话，我一定强烈支持：自己做的选择，当然要坚持走到最后！
但是现在的我，对这句话反而有几分怀疑，有几分反对。
人生中有太多太多的米字路口，尤其是像选科系这样的麻烦事，很多身边的五叔公六姨婆都会很多意见很多comment，叫我们一定要深思熟虑啦，这条路选下去就一定要坚持到底啦，不要读到一半转科浪费恁老爸老母的棺材本啦~
其实我倒是觉得，深思熟虑固然重要，但更重要的是“知错能改”。嘎嘎嘎，这样说好像有点过分了。其实我想说的是：如果深思熟虑过后还是他娘的倒霉选错科，念了之后才发现不适合自己，真的应该趁早转科。如果带着那种“跪着走完”的心态强迫自己念完，可能会不停挂科重考不说，把自己下半辈子投入在一个自己不感兴趣的行业，那才叫一个惨。
人生真的很短，几十年一下子就过去，或许盲目的跟从别人的步伐而忽略了自己想要的生活方式，一辈子都不会快乐吧？说短不短，说长不长的人生路，自己走好最重要，真的选错路了，回头也好，在下一个路口转弯也好，真的，不要跪着走完。